Self-Esteem or Loving Oneself
and Others
by Ven. Thubten Chodron©
Excerpts from teachings given at a youth camp at Phor Kark See
Kong Meng San Monastery, Singapore
Sun, 10 Nov 2002
"Meditation"
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Purpose of Meditation.
Helps us understand ourselves
and become our own friends; Being alone without feeling lonely;
Our tendency to put ourselves down, making comparisons with others,
feeling envy and lacking in self-confidence - how to deal with this.
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Explanation of topics raised
by audience. What is Buddhist
practice and what is Chinese culture/tradition? Is ancestor worship
part of Buddhism?~ What do we do as Buddhists? What are the characteristics
of a Buddha? Having the Buddha potential - basis for being hopeful
and optimistic and having self-confidence ~ What does taking refuge
mean? What are the Three Jewels? ~ Buddhism & Christianity-differences
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Questions and answers
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- How can consciousness exist without
a body?
- Do Buddhists believe in rebirth or
in reincarnation?
- Can our past lives affect our life
now?
- When we have a bad thought in our mind,
but we don't act out the bad thought, does that create bad karma?
- Does negative karma created in this
life only ripen in future lives?
10 Actions that Buddha advised us to
refrain from doing, 10 Actions that we should practice, and the
benefits of doing these. Important
to understand that the Buddha didn't create the rules, the Buddha
doesn't punish us; these rules are not commandments; they're just
the function of cause and effect. ~ Refraining from doing a negative
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As a beginner, how does one go about
doing a meditation?
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- Difficulty of getting to the meditation
cushion - how to deal with this.
- When to do the session, how long to
do it.
- 3 motivations to have first thing in
the morning.
- What meditation should we do?
- What a meditation session consists of.
- 2 important mental factors that are
good to have to help us concentrate.
- Handling distractions.
- Dealing with drowsiness.
- Dealing with unrealistic expectations.
- Visualization to do when chanting.
- Making a dedication at the end of the
meditation session.
Questions and answers
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- What's the meaning of life? What's the
point of repeating the same processes and actions life after life?
- How are the various Buddhist traditions
- Theravada, Mahayana, Tibetan, Zen - different?
- Is Tibetan Buddhism equivalent to Vajrayana?
- Rituals and the Four Noble Truths.
- What do we do when we see people engaging
in strange practices in the name of Buddhism?
- What's the difference between breathing
meditation, vipassana meditation and samatha meditation?
- Are there ways to cultivate our mind
other than meditation, especially if we're weak in meditation?
More explantion on meditation.
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